I love my sister!

Why do I love my sister? Let's see, she keeps me grounded. No living in fantasy land for me.

She listens when I need to scream and cry. I can only yell, she can't handle the screaming. I can cry however I need to make sure I am clear. That one is hard.

When I tell jokes that make me laugh she stares and blinks until I am done laughing and wiping away the tears. She supports me when I need the support. She is my greatest sounding board. she can be very patient, no small feat since I am loud, and illogical at times.

She is my very best friend. We seem to know each other much better then our spouses do. We even think alike in many ways.

Thank God for my sister.

Though we are complete opposites in many ways, We strive to forgive and offer grace.

Thank you sis.

Life of an unemployed housewife

I am sitting here wondering if there is more to my life then this. I am sure there is. I have an unemployed son and his pregnant wife living here. My other boy is in Missouri on an Army base but is a Marine. and My niece live's in El Paso, Texas.

This may sound depressing, but I am hoping it will change. Hoping my unemployed son will find a great job, his wife will get used to us and my Marine will excel in all that he does. I am hoping that my niece will have another child so I can spoil that one. Not that I do a whole lot of that with the first one she has.

This is the next chapter in my life. Waiting. I can take the reigns of my life, but where will I go? I haven't lots of money to travel, I can sew, however not perfect.I am not old. I am in my 40's and I just got here. I have volunteered in the prison, taught science courses for children, not a credentialed teacher, but had a great time. I went to school for day care and office administration.

So why do I seem depressed? I have no job, not an empty nester, not a full account so I can travel,and I am not losing anymore weight.

Bright side, I am looking for a job, my kid can't live with me forever, right? I can save, and I could exercise.

Well enough griping, the rain is falling, the wind is blowing and there is no fire in the fire place.

My husband is here and I have a snuggie and an NOOK to cuddle with and read.

Happy New Year everyone, may this year end in a happy way.

Young Adulthood.

I have finally gotten through the teenage years with my kids. My niece got married almost 3 years ago and had a baby boy, My oldest son moved out in July, and my youngest son joined the Marine's. Life was settling in just wonderfully.

My husband and I were finally empty nester's. Enjoying the aloneness,snuggling, reading without interruptions. No more dealing with teachers,bus problems, car issues with the kids and smiling very often. They were a joy to behold.

Sigh, A perfect memory.

Two months after the last kid moved out, he moved back in. He got a great job and a month later told us we were going to be grandparents. After we got over the shock, we settled down and let life keep going.

Things are leveling out until he says "we are getting married." We let them know that marriage is not the only option for unplanned babies. There is adoption or just wait and see how it's going to be with this relationship. They have only known each other for 4 month's before she got pregnant.

Well, 4 days before Christmas, they got married. It was a beautiful ceremony with just my husband and I attending from our side of the family.

We have a very nice daughter in law. She is kind and young. 19.

The very next day, my son was terminated from his job. thru the mail no less. Apparently he got his day's mixed up and he was in his 90 day probation, and poof! no more job.

So we have a family living with us, and a baby on the way and we are no longer empty nester's.

I miss the days when me and my Hubie had the freedom to go with out clothing throughout the house.

I wish for allot of things, a job for my boy, he makes enough that they can move out, and a job out of state for my husband and me. That way it will take a heck of allot more to move in with mom and dad.

Any thoughts?

Mediocrity

Who ever said teenagers don’t have goals? It is amazing what a kid will do for something he wants real badly. Take for instance my son. He has wanted to join the military for years. He is old enough now and has decided to take a practice test. We drop him off at the recruiting center and waited for him to be done with the test. The program he wants takes 31 points to enter into. He makes the grade of 21 points. Ok, so it is not that much of a jump to get to where he needs to be. Only 10 points and he will get the program he wants. Ok so this is my concern. He was so excited to be only ten points from his goal that he will only study hard enough for those 10 points. He will not go further.

Since when is it ok to be mediocre? I don’t understand. I know average people run the world. But he is shooting for just barely average. I have always taught my kids, shoot for the stars. Not get high enough to see the sparkle. I don’t understand why he wants to just make it.
The majority of the teenage population understands that it will take work to attain their future goals. Some just want to float thru life until there is a need to live on their own. A parent can go bald and driven to drink because of lazy and unproductive kids like mine.

Fortunately I have hope. Kids like mine do one day sit up and say “I finally get it!” This is the day the mother and father say “Thank the Good Lord for patience and Advil.” And then they get on a boat headed for that much needed vacation to Alaska.
For those of you who have children like mine take care in knowing, Alaska will always be there. Don’t give up and only take up to four Advil’s a day.

Freedom

I have wondered a lot in the last several years about the freedoms I am supposed to have. I thought I was aloud to make decisions on my own. To be able to say "Do I want to help that person who is holding out a sign for help or sleeping in the street?" That person could be down on his luck, or drinking out of a bottle every time my head is turned. Decisions, decisions???? How about that girl over there. She is pregnant and wants to terminate the pregnancy. Should I pay for it or should I let her? Hmmmmm? Was she raped or did she just play around and get caught? One more, A lot of banks just loaned out a bunch of money to a lot of people they new could not make the payments. Should I be the one to bail them out or should they suck it up and make better decisions next time if they get that chance? Well I thought I would get the freedom to say yes or no. What if i don't want to help, bail out or pay for the death of the unborn child. I have my personal beliefs and I am bound to help or not help based on those beliefs.
Unfortunately the country where I live does not give me the chance to make my own decisions.
Instead the taxes I pay to run this country are given to those who did not plan well or made very bad decisions
When will I be able to choose?

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Sister as friends

Do you have a sister ?
Having a sister is the most wonderful and exciting relationship one can have.
When we are younger there is the protection from harm when the little sister needs it. As the two grow older, there is a need for shoulders to cry on and boyfriends to injure. In adult hood, we still need each other thru life's adventure's. Sick children, lonely nights, and parental problems.
During the happy times and the sad times, you will have your sister.
When you both get older you reminisce in the good times and bad. You pet your 12 cats and are glad you always had your sister, your friend.
Make sure you will always be together whatever happens